Sex Toys

95% of all couples in the world have admitted to becoming bored with their sex life or to having been left unsatisfied with more than half of all sexual encounters with their significant other. That is why so many couples have implemented the use of sex toys in their sex life, in order to add more passion and to create new experiences behind closed doors.

 

There are numerous reasons why couples use sex toys. The majority of couples use them to keep from becoming bored in the bedroom and to also further enhance foreplay. Most couples agree that foreplay is lacking in their sex life. This is generally due to the fact that most couples tend to overlook foreplay the more that their relationship progresses. In fact, many couples look at sex as a chore or as something "they have to do." Therefore, they skip pass foreplay and move straight to intercourse.

 

However, 98% of women have stated in various findings that they receive more pleasure and stimulation through foreplay. In fact, more than half of all women can not achieve orgasm without some form of foreplay.With that in mind, a couple who is 'lacking' in the bedroom or a couple who simply wants to add some 'spice' to their sex life, should highly consider the use of sex toys.

 

The most popular sex toys on the market are vibrators. Vibrators can be used by both members of a couple to stimulate one another and to properly prepare a woman for sexual intercourse. In fact, many sexual experts agree that if a woman is not properly stimulated prior to actual penetration it can result in increased pain and can also result in no pleasure.

 

By using a vibrator a woman can prepare herself for intercourse and a man can also receive pleasure in the knowledge that he is providing pleasure with his mate. This is why vibrators are so popular amongst couples. They are a great way to prepare members for actual intercourse.

 

Sex experts also agree that masturbation while in a relationship is still a very positive action. In fact, many sex experts actually encourage couples to masturbate on their own in order to further their sex lives. With that in mind couples who do use vibrators while together can also use it separately to achieve the pleasure they desire.

 

Apart from vibrators there are thousands of additional sex toys that are designed for couples and for solo use by both sexes. Many of these sex toys are as common as 'blindfolds' which simply take away the use of a person's sight during intercourse in order to enhance the other senses. Then there are more creative sex toys that were designed to provide pleasure to both sexes that act as vibrators to some degree.

 

If you are in a relationship you will want to consider the introduction of sex toys in your sex life in order to maintain a level of fun and excitement. Additionally, you will want to consider the use of sex toys in order to provide more pleasure for both members of your relationship.



By: Britney Simpson

About the Author:

Jerome

The back.

Run your fingers up and down her spine. Use massage oil to rub her all over. And at the same time kiss her back in different spots. Kisses and touches to the back drive women crazy. It might be ticklish to start, but once she is over the ticklishness the feeling is heavenly. Even the lightest kisses and touches on the bank will get her juices flowing.

The inner thighs.

The lightest fingers rubs up starting from the knee all the way up to the top of her thigh will have the hair on her arms standing on end. The inner thighs are a highly sensitive spot so just the lightest touches will have her aroused. While you are stimulating this area, don't even touch the vagina or clitoris, just keep your touches purely on her leg as this will have her craving your touch even more. Also lick up and down the inner thigh as hot soft tongue feels amazing on the thigh. You can even use sex toys like the bullets and eggs to vibrate on her thigh for a different sensation.

The neck.

This is a highly erotic and sensitive area for women. The lightest softest kisses on any are of the neck feel amazing. So tease her entire neck. Kiss it all over and all around the ears. Make sure you don’t leave a spot untouched.

The bottom.

She might be self conscious about it, but show her you love it no matter what shape and size it is. Rub and lick all over the cheek and even on the inside. This is called a rimming, and many women and men love the sensation of this. Vary the way you touch the bottom and vary the pressure of your tongue and fingers. If she likes anal play, then even try sex toys on her like from our anal toys category.

If you hit all these spots in one night, you are guaranteed to have her eating out of the palm of your hand – and she might even do it all back to you!



By: Suzie Harris

About the Author:

Susana

By the end of the article you’ll know about the various types of vibrators, the areas they are designed to stimulate allowing you to make an informed decision about which vibrator is perfect for you!

Classic vibrators

Classic vibrators have a shaft which vibrates, they don’t have additional features that stimulate the clitoris. Depending on which vibrator you choose depends on the size of the shaft and how many vibrating functions it has. G spot vibrators also fit into the classic vibrator range. These toys are bent at the tip to reach the G-Spot. You’ll know if it is a G Spot vibrator as it will generally be in the name of the product. Classic vibrators are ideal for women who like straight up vaginal and G Spot pleasure.

Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators are by far the most popular vibrator for women. Just like a classic vibrator, rabbit vibrators have a vibrating shaft and they also have an additional feature to stimulate the clitoris. This is how the rabbit vibrator receives its name – this additional part which pleasure the clitoris appears like rabbit ears. Rabbit vibrators are powered by batteries and they offer different speeds and intensities of vibrations. The shaft contains beads which rotate, the tip of the vibrator also twirls, and the clitoris stimulator generally has seven different types of vibrations, although depending on which rabbit vibrator you choose depends on how many variations and speeds of vibrations you get. Rabbit vibrators are ideal for women who like double the pleasure, vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

Hands-free vibrators

Hands-free vibrators are known as butterflies. Butterflies are generally harnessed on around the waist and the butterflies purpose is to give kisses on the clitoris. Sometimes butterflies may also have a petite shaft, although many do not. The butterfly is works by a remote control, so you are able to sit back, or lie back, and enjoy heavenly clitoral stimulation without lifting a finger. Hands-free vibrators are ideal for women who want pure clitoral stimulation.

Bullet and Eggs

Bullets and eggs are petite vibrating sex toys which are the shape of an egg or bullet. Their purpose is to pulsate on the clitoris, also they are able to be used to stimulate in the vagina. Bullets and eggs have a chord that attaches them to a remote control, and you’re able to control the vibrations from the remote. Bullets and eggs are ideal for those wanting stimulation to the clitoris or a petite vibrating toy to use in the vagina which is not the size of a classic shaft.

Anal vibrators

There are heaps of different products for anal play, and many of these vibrate. You’ll know which products vibrate from skimming the product write ups and if they need batteries. Anal toys are ideal if you like anal pleasure, or you’re looking to explore something new.

Which one is for you?

You have now read about the different types of vibrators, its time to get thinking about which one is for you. Start to think about which part of your body you want to stimulate, the clitoris, vagina, G-spot or anus, or a combination. Now go to the various section and have a look of the various product descriptions and see what sounds appealing for you. There are various shaped vibrators, toys with various speeds, so its just a matter of browsing through and seeing what tempts you.

Tips when using your vibrator

When starting out with your new toy, its a very good idea to use lube. Start slowly with your vibrator toy. If you're new to adult products, its often a good idea to test the various vibrations out on your leg to get used to the sensations. Once you’ve tested one vibrator don’t end it there, there’s so many to and many joys to be had!



By: Suzie Harris

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Maeve

James Mcguire asked:


Most people know about Rabbit Vibrators and know what I am talking about and needs little introduction but few realise the workings behind this orgasmic sex toy.

A rabbit vibrator is essentially a vibrator. But don't be confused as there is one essential ingredient to this vibrator which will be explained later. A rabbit vibrator has a few extra features. The rabbit vibrator is designed especially for the needs of the woman not only for solo stimulation but to enhance lovemaking between couples. Rabbit vibrators truly shine as one of the best sex toys for women.

Over the years Rabbit Vibrators have been given various names such as The Rabbit, Bunny Rabbit, Pearl Rabbit. Essentially these sex toys are all the same with the exception of variation of color changes. Rabbit vibrators usually have a rotating or gyrating head. Most new rabbits can rotate both clock-wise and counter clockwise with a controller for the speed. The head is most often shaped like a penis to give a realistic feeling but can be found with a curved end for maximum G-Spot stimulation.

Majority of Rabbit Vibrators have small plastic or metal beads incased in the shaft that vibrates or rotates at varying speeds and directions which can intensify at a touch of a button. These beads serve to enhance the sensation of an orgasm much like a ribbed condom. When the muscles of the vaginal wall contract around these vibrating or rotating beads during an orgasm, the beads provide extra sensations. The beads are found only on a rabbit vibrator and are one of the features that make is so popular.

The second and if not most important feature of a rabbit adult sex toys are the rabbit ears hence the name rabbit vibrator. These ears are shaped much like the ears of rabbit which in turn vibrates and stimulates the clitoral stimulation as they come into direct contact with the clitoris.

When purchasing a rabbit vibrator look for variable vibrating speeds and rotations which can easily be controlled either by a fixed handle or a remote control unit. The rabbit is a tried and proven sex toy which was unanimously chosen as the "best vibrator" out of 40 different vibrators on Playboy TV's "Sexcetera" and was selected as the "best vibrator" on a radio station in New York City when compared to other similar sex toys.

To enhance your experience when using any vaginal or anal sex toy vibrator, make sure to use water based lubricants. With all this, said sex toys can be a wonderful enhancement to lovemaking and a source of truly spectacular pleasure and these toys should not be used in place of your partner but with your partner.



Ramon

Jerry Leung asked:


There are people who are reluctant to use sex toys. In fact, if your partner is one of such people, it will be quite difficult to introduce a toy in your sex life. However, there are some kind of toys that you may try since they are proved to be less embarrassing.

Sex board games

Indeed a sex board game is not really a toy. However, it is a kind of game like the game Monopoly. You will play it while you are "playing" in the bed room. The simplest kind of such game is a sex dice. There are different actions on the six face of the dice and you will need to do what the dice describes when you throw it. Of there are also some game which are more sophisticated. This will certainly help to spicy the bedroom.

Vibrators

When you are choosing a vibrator, you should try to choose a small one if your partner does not have any experience on it before. Of course in most cases you will use it to simulate the genital of your partner. However, if it is the first time for you or your partner to use a vibrator. You may try to use it to stimulate other parts of the body. For example, it can be used to stimulate the nipples and both men and women love the feeling of being stimulated.

Costumes

This will be usually used for role playing. In fact, if you or your partner does not really like the idea of costumes. You may try some sexy lingerie. As a matter of fact, there are sexy clothes for men as well. If both of you feel alright with costumes, you may even start your fantasy in role playing.

There are various options when role playing is concerned. You can act as a policeman / policewoman while your partner can act as a robber. The idea of doctor and patient or doctor and nurse is also very popular. Particularly, the role playing about pirates can help to introduce some simple and light BDSM equipments in your sex life.

Massage oil

Again, this is not really a sex toy. But most people will love the feeling of being massaged with massage oil. It can really make your partner relaxed. You can start using a small vibrator to stimulate his / her body when he / she feel relaxed. Your partner will certainly love it!



Elyse