Sex Toys

This and many more questions with respect to orgasm have been frequently asked online and giving the numerous orgasm techniques available, I believe it should be easily tackled. Orgasm as I suppose we all know is the peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male while for the female; ejaculation of semen is still very much debatable.

To reach this peak of sexual excitement, many different strategies and methods could be applied; it could be achieved when you are with your partner or when you are by yourself i.e. through masturbation. As regards to the question above, using a vibrator would most definitely be an act of masturbation therefore all acts of foreplay would be performed by you.

However, in the place of the vibrator you should use your fingers to stimulate, touch and fondle both your clitoris and G-spot. The clitoris and the G-spot are often the most erogenous zones in the female body but if it is different in your case then I suggest you try to locate the spots in your body that gives you the most intense pleasure when stimulated. In a case where by your nipples, back of your neck, navel or tip of your ears gives you the most intense pleasure then you may have to get yourself a partner who would do the stimulation for you because you can never effectively stimulate these areas by yourself as an act of masturbation.

By: M. J. Scott

About the Author:

Asher

It seems to be a common assumption that all men are potentially 'put out' by their girlfriends owning a vibrator, and that a dildo replaces a woman's need for a man. This is certainly an incorrect assumption. Plenty of women feel more comfortable buying a vibrator and using it to learn more about what pleases her best but ultimately a dildo or vibrator helps improve her sexual relationship with you. If your girlfriend does have a vibrator, incorporate it into your sexual play by you taking control of her toy.

Most vibrators will have a speed dial so make full use of the different settings when playing with her - start slowly with a low setting. Don't just insert the vibrator straight into her vagina; use the toy to tease her. Place the vibrator on different sensitive spots on her body - enjoy finding out which sensations she likes best by moving the vibrator over different parts of her body. Tease her by moving the head of the vibrator around the clitoris without directly touching it, until she asks you for more. For a variation hold her vibrator in your hand while you stroke her clitoris for a special pleasurable feeling.

As your partner builds towards climax, play cat and mouse, by slowing the vibrator again or withdraw it completely teasing your girlfriend until she moans for more. Women can find it hard to orgasm just through penetration alone, keep the vibrator going as part of sex, by putting her on top and putting the vibrator at the base of your penis will send waves of pleasure for both of you. Alternatively you could tease her clit with a sex toy while you take her from behind.

If you are not confident using a vibrator to tease and pleasure your girlfriend, ask her to show you what she likes to do with her own toy, what better way is there than to watch and learn? Another option to drive her crazy is a wireless vibrator - giving you the control over her orgasm. Nothing can beat the excitement of a man controlling his partner's pleasure via remote control. Using a wireless remotes means the opportunities to enjoy this discreet toy are endless; get your girlfriend to wear it wherever she dares!

A vibrator can also provide amazing stimulation for men; use it gently on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help achieve a great high for men and women, talk to your partner about what they enjoy and have fun searching for play things and vibrators online together.

By: Jessica Heart

About the Author:

Kenya

The history of the vibrator is pretty interesting. It was developed in the 19th century for the treatment of female hysteria. Its symptoms included faintness, insomnia, nervousness, heaviness in the abdomen, shortness of breath, fluid retention, irritability just to name a few.

The treatment at the time was for the woman to undergo 'pelvic massage'. Basically manual stimulation of her genitals by the doctor until she experienced "hysterical paroxysm", or in modern terms, until she had an orgasm.

The list of ailments that could be attributed to female hysteria was almost limitless at the time. Female hysteria was very profitable for the medical profession and was the ideal disease. It was not life threatening, but required constant treatment. Although this was profitable for the doctor, effective 'pelvic massage' was difficult for many doctors to master and could take hours of massage before "hysterical paroxysm" (female orgasm) was achieved. Consequently doctors often referred their patience to midwifes, but this meant a loss of business.

In the 1870's electromechanical vibrators became available to doctors and reduced the treatment time from hours to just mere minutes. The use of the vibrator allowed the doctor keep the treatment of female hysteria in house; and consequently keep the business it provided, while also letting the doctor see more patients.

Later as electricity became widespread, self treatment of female hysteria in the privacy of one's home made the vibrator a popular consumer item. In a Sears catalog from 1918 the portable electric vibrator is featured on the "Aid That Every Woman Appreciates" page along with the household mixer, sewing machine, fan and other home appliance essentials.

Just as the doctors from the 19th century knew, using a vibrator is a much quicker way for a woman to have an orgasm. The funny thing is, although physicians understood female hysteria resulted from sexual dissatisfaction, they seemed ignorant of the sexual effect of the vibrator (or pelvic massage in earlier times) they used to treat it.

Is the vibrator essential for a woman to climax? Of course we now know that female hysteria is a myth and hysterical paroxysm is really a female orgasm. And we know that orgasm is the result of sexual stimulation. A vibrator applied to the genitals is a powerful sexual stimulator. In fact for some women it is too powerful. But for many women they never experience an orgasm until they try to climax using a vibrator.

A vibrator can be a useful tool for a woman learning to orgasm and to achieve an orgasm more quickly and with less frustration. Also research shows that women who regularly use a vibrator to orgasm when alone, don't use is it as a substitute for sex with their partner. In fact, according to the study, the women who said they regularly used a vibrator, reported having sex more frequently with their partner. They also frequently used the vibrator during sex with their partner to make orgasm easier and more intense or to enjoy multiple orgasms with their partner.

Some words of caution. There have been a few reports of women using a vibrator so much that they desensitize their sexual nerves and make the use of a vibrator necessary in order to enjoy sex at all. But this is rare. A good way to avoid desensitization is to vary your usage during sex play. For example; during foreplay use the vibrator lightly on the outer lips for just a minute or two then turn it off and do something else (stroking the outer lips with your or your partner's hand or fingering internally, etc.).

Add more vibrator use as you play, maybe just to the point before climax, then switch it off and switch to pleasuring your partner orally. Or have him enter you and play for a while. Keep mixing in the use of the vibrator with your love play until you both climax. Then rest for a minute or two and go for another orgasm. You may be pleasantly surprised with the results. The basic idea is to add vibrator use to your lovemaking instead of making love to your vibrator.

Many women find using the vibrator intermittently as described during partner sex leads to very intense multiple orgasms as compared to using the vibrator continuously to go straight to orgasm. Yes, yes, YES, a vibrator can be good for female orgasm or two, or three or...

By: David Christian Solomon

About the Author:

Tariq

Has sex between you and your spouse grown stale? Is it always the same old positions, the same old foreplay then straight off to sleep? Are you having orgasms and feeling physically satisfied, but mentally still randy and unfulfilled? It may be time to try something new and exciting to improve your marriage sex. Using sex toys is a great way to make sex new and exciting all over again, even if you have been married 20 or 30 years. Ranging from simply massagers to much more intricate tools of the trade, sex toys are a great way to take your love life from lukewarm to boiling hot in no time flat.

Are you hesitant to improve your marriage sex by using sex toys? Then you may have the mistaken notion that there is something dirty or inappropriate about using them. Whether from strict religious upbringing or just simple social stigma, some people view sex toys as being the playthings of deviant people. The truth is that there is nothing wrong with using sex toys to spice up your love life with your spouse. There is nothing wrong or dirty about it. A simple battery operated massager can help heighten a woman's pleasure during intercourse, allowing her to experience more powerful orgasms, which in turn will make the sex that much hotter for the man.

It has been a long accepted fact that in general, women require more foreplay to reach orgasm then men do. Women are able to experience multiple orgasms in rapid succession, whereas men have an orgasm and then need to regroup before they can have a next one. This can lead to frustration for a woman if her spouse climaxes before she does. Starting your love making by using a vibrator can get a woman much closer to orgasm before you actually have sex, increasing the likelihood that she will climax during sex.

If you are looking for a way to improve your marriage sex, using sex toys is a great way to do it. It is very easy to discreetly purchase sex toys on line or through a catalog if you are too shy to go into a sex shop to buy one in person. There are more than just vibrators and personal massagers as well. Everything from erotic ticklers, to snugly fitting rings that prolong sex for a man are available and can all help you bring some heat back between your sheets.

By: Alex Ca

About the Author:

Ezekiel

95% of all couples in the world have admitted to becoming bored with their sex life or to having been left unsatisfied with more than half of all sexual encounters with their significant other. That is why so many couples have implemented the use of sex toys in their sex life, in order to add more passion and to create new experiences behind closed doors.

 

There are numerous reasons why couples use sex toys. The majority of couples use them to keep from becoming bored in the bedroom and to also further enhance foreplay. Most couples agree that foreplay is lacking in their sex life. This is generally due to the fact that most couples tend to overlook foreplay the more that their relationship progresses. In fact, many couples look at sex as a chore or as something "they have to do." Therefore, they skip pass foreplay and move straight to intercourse.

 

However, 98% of women have stated in various findings that they receive more pleasure and stimulation through foreplay. In fact, more than half of all women can not achieve orgasm without some form of foreplay.With that in mind, a couple who is 'lacking' in the bedroom or a couple who simply wants to add some 'spice' to their sex life, should highly consider the use of sex toys.

 

The most popular sex toys on the market are vibrators. Vibrators can be used by both members of a couple to stimulate one another and to properly prepare a woman for sexual intercourse. In fact, many sexual experts agree that if a woman is not properly stimulated prior to actual penetration it can result in increased pain and can also result in no pleasure.

 

By using a vibrator a woman can prepare herself for intercourse and a man can also receive pleasure in the knowledge that he is providing pleasure with his mate. This is why vibrators are so popular amongst couples. They are a great way to prepare members for actual intercourse.

 

Sex experts also agree that masturbation while in a relationship is still a very positive action. In fact, many sex experts actually encourage couples to masturbate on their own in order to further their sex lives. With that in mind couples who do use vibrators while together can also use it separately to achieve the pleasure they desire.

 

Apart from vibrators there are thousands of additional sex toys that are designed for couples and for solo use by both sexes. Many of these sex toys are as common as 'blindfolds' which simply take away the use of a person's sight during intercourse in order to enhance the other senses. Then there are more creative sex toys that were designed to provide pleasure to both sexes that act as vibrators to some degree.

 

If you are in a relationship you will want to consider the introduction of sex toys in your sex life in order to maintain a level of fun and excitement. Additionally, you will want to consider the use of sex toys in order to provide more pleasure for both members of your relationship.



By: Britney Simpson

About the Author:

Jerome