Sex Toys

People often get confused and think of sex toys as something you use alone. They are a fabulous way to enhance your love making WITH your partner. I'm going to outline some ideas for how to use one of your vibrators with your lover. Obviously, they are fab for solo fun, but can REALLY amp up the intensity of partner sex. If you have a male partner that is a little bit apprehensive about incorporating a sex toy, just do as my friend Joan Price says and tell him you're ready for a "threesome." You, him and B.O.B. (Battery Operated Boyfriend)

If he is still hesitant, make it all about him.

1. While you are giving him a oral sex put the vibrator against your cheek on the outside so he can feel your mouth humming and vibrating. Just adds a bit of tingle and a new sensation for him.

2. Take your panties or g-string off and wrap a bullet style vibrator in your panties and then rub the vibrator on his testicles, the shaft of his penis, all over his nipples and then maybe a little on your nipples, too. He will feel the silkiness of your panties and the vibe! FUN!

3. For men who are more comfortable with a vibrator, rub it on his testicles while you are giving him oral. This can make a b.j. very efficient, ladies. (Some men finish much more quickly then normal when they have a vibe on their balls. Just saying.)

4. For men that are super comfortable with toys, rub a little lube on the perineum (taint) and rub that area with a small vibe. Make sure he knows he can trust you not to do anything he is not comfortable with while you are in that area. (Most men describe a prostate massage as one of the most intense orgasms they have ever felt, but not all men are ready for that and NOBODY wants to be surprised in that area.) But, light vibration under the balls on that little soft spot can be very intense for them.

5. How about giving him a massage and tucking a small vibe into your hands while you massage his inner thighs, his back, his neck and the back of his thighs with some oil and a vibe. There is also something called a massage mitt which you can use for massage and tuck in a vibe into the mitt.

6. While he is going down on you, have him slide a small g-spot toy like the Finger Fun into your vagina with the g-spot tip angled towards your g-spot which is on the belly button wall of your vajayjay. You will have a super intense orgasm and it will make oral on you VERY efficient. He can also tease your clitoris with it and help you to have a clitoral orgasm very quickly.... or maybe two... or three.... or four???

7. Give up total control and give him the battery pack. Try giving him oral sex or while he is inside of you, put it on you clitoris. Give him the control and let him turn the vibe up or down. (Very fun with the 5 speed bullet as it has 5 pulsations and escalations and can get you trembling and climaxing together!) You won't know where he is going with it and it can really add to the anticipation and the playfulness that will make your experience that much better.

8. Tie him up or maybe just blindfold him and make it all about him for an hour or a half an hour. Get him good and relaxed and touch every inch of his body with your hands, tongue and body...but occasionally slide a vibrator on low on his more sensitive areas.... but avoid touching his penis for a little while. Have fun watching his penis twitch, get hard, relax, get hard and repeat. You can get a feel for which sensations he REALLY likes and which sensations he really DOES NOT like by watching the reaction of his penis. FILE THIS AWAY ladies! Good info for later.

9. Last but not least, find your favorite toy in your dirty drawer and give it to him. Let him know you want a little warm up with your fave toy, but you want to include him. Have him strip down, lie next to you, cradle your back or neck with one of his arms so you are face to face and able to make out. He has the toy in his other hand and can use it on you while still feeling like is a part of the process. (Though some men love to be in the "catchers" position up close and personal with the toy and your clitoris.) It's a great way to feel very connected when you are using a toy with your lover.

For women, a small vibrator on their clitoris is pretty much a guaranteed orgasm. Our BONUS TIP #10. When you are making love, put a small bullet on your clitoris while you are on your back back, or while you are having sex doggy style, or on your side, you on top, reverse cowgirl... you name it, it works. You get the benefit of a clitoral orgasm from penetration which rarely happens. He gets the bonus of knowing you had an orgasm so he does not have to worry and ask that dreaded question. And, when a woman climaxes, her vagina contracts and tightens down on the penis and can really enhance his experience! It's a WIN WIN!

By: Chrystal L. Bougon

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When it comes to making a girl orgasm there are a variety of different ways that you can do it.

In this article, you will discover an amazing hot tip guaranteed to make a girl orgasm in a way that she never has before.

Amazing Hot Tip to Make A Girl Orgasm (Guaranteed You'll Be The First To Make Her Climax Like This!)

If you are looking to give the woman that you are with one of the most amazing orgasms that she has ever experienced there are going to be a couple of tools that you are going to want to pull sexual toolbox in order to give her a truly remarkable experience.

However, before we get started this particular sex technique should only be performed on a woman that you are seeing fairly regularly and have an established relationship with.

In fact, based on some of the tools that you are going to need for this particular sex technique you might want to wait until it is her birthday or some other special occasion so that you can give her the kind of gift that keeps on giving.

Tools You are going to need out of your sexual toolbox:
A water Based Personal Lubricant A Female Stimulating or Arousal Gel The Gigi Vibrator

As you can see it is the third thing that you are going to pull out of your sexual toolbox that makes this the kind of sex technique that you want to only use on a woman who you have been in established relationship with that way you will know if she is comfortable with using sex toys.

The Gigi Vibrator is special in the fact that it has a firm curve that arcs upward in order to stimulate a woman's g-spot and it has 5 different vibrational speeds for her sexual pleasure.

Once you and the woman that you are with find yourself alone and you are ready to perform this oral sex technique that is going to give her the most amazing mind blowing orgasms you are going to want to follow these simple steps.
Get into the 69 oral sex position with you on top. Apply the water based lubricant of your choice onto the Gigi vibrator Apply some of the female stimulating gel underneath the hood of her clitoris Begin performing oral sex on her mainly focusing on her clitoris nsert the Gigi Vibrator into her vagina at her desired vibrational level. Move the Gigi around inside her until you find her g-spot Continue performing oral sex on her while stimulating her g-spot with the Gigi vibrator until she climaxes into orgasmic bliss.

In the end, performing oral sex on a woman while having the Gigi vibrator inside of her is an excellent way to give her the most amazing mind blowing orgasms again and again.

By: Trey Osborne

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