How to Introduce Adult Sex Toys Into Your Relationship
Monday, January 25th, 2010
Eddie Yakubovich asked:
If you don't already know by now, all kinds of sex toys, especially dildos and vibrators feel really good. You think that just by saying that that it's enough to convince couples that incorporating sex toys into their love making is all the thought you could ever need.
Think again. People still do feel a bit uncomfortable, embarrassed, and are not as liberal as they think they are when you try to talk about sex toys of any kind. Men like to see their partner experiencing an orgasm.
There is usually one person in a relationship that is more open-minded and adventuresome than the other person. That's the person that wants to play sex toys. This is usually the male. It doesn't matter is your straight or gay. Men know that for a woman to reach an orgasm and multiple times it takes work.
First and foremost, my advise has always been never just surprise your partner with a vibrator, dildo of any shape or size without feeling him or her out first on how receptive they are to trying one. If you think that your partner is more into liking surprises then by all means bring one home and slip in where ever is most pleasing.
Secondly, make sure your partner understands that incorporating sex toys into your relationship doesn't make you weird or perverted at all. Many kinds of people that you and I would consider normal really do use sex toys. It's a fact that sex toys enhance an orgasm or better yet, make you have one.
Finally, if your partner is still uncomfortable about using sex toys have her do some research about the topic on the internet or even talk about it with someone she or he trusts. Most couples are usually in their mid 20's before they become curious enough to begin the venture.
Sometimes it can be helpful to arouse your partner first by watching a mild erotic video or read erotic books together to start the mood going. Tell your partner that all you want to do is please her even more. By your partner feeling confident that it has absolutely nothing to do with them and their love making techniques you can feel a bit more secure and go with something different.
With sex toys of all kinds, the fact of the matter is, it is less work for you. Now keep in mind that it doesn't make you a sexual freak or masturbator in any way. It's really all about enhancing sensations and the only way to do that is through something that vibrates.
Amira
If you don't already know by now, all kinds of sex toys, especially dildos and vibrators feel really good. You think that just by saying that that it's enough to convince couples that incorporating sex toys into their love making is all the thought you could ever need.
Think again. People still do feel a bit uncomfortable, embarrassed, and are not as liberal as they think they are when you try to talk about sex toys of any kind. Men like to see their partner experiencing an orgasm.
There is usually one person in a relationship that is more open-minded and adventuresome than the other person. That's the person that wants to play sex toys. This is usually the male. It doesn't matter is your straight or gay. Men know that for a woman to reach an orgasm and multiple times it takes work.
First and foremost, my advise has always been never just surprise your partner with a vibrator, dildo of any shape or size without feeling him or her out first on how receptive they are to trying one. If you think that your partner is more into liking surprises then by all means bring one home and slip in where ever is most pleasing.
Secondly, make sure your partner understands that incorporating sex toys into your relationship doesn't make you weird or perverted at all. Many kinds of people that you and I would consider normal really do use sex toys. It's a fact that sex toys enhance an orgasm or better yet, make you have one.
Finally, if your partner is still uncomfortable about using sex toys have her do some research about the topic on the internet or even talk about it with someone she or he trusts. Most couples are usually in their mid 20's before they become curious enough to begin the venture.
Sometimes it can be helpful to arouse your partner first by watching a mild erotic video or read erotic books together to start the mood going. Tell your partner that all you want to do is please her even more. By your partner feeling confident that it has absolutely nothing to do with them and their love making techniques you can feel a bit more secure and go with something different.
With sex toys of all kinds, the fact of the matter is, it is less work for you. Now keep in mind that it doesn't make you a sexual freak or masturbator in any way. It's really all about enhancing sensations and the only way to do that is through something that vibrates.
Amira
