Sex Toys

There has been some confusion over whether Christian sex toys are healthy and sound for the Christian intimate relationship. They in fact can be a healthy addition to a Christian relationship, within reason. Here are some very important guidelines for Christian sex toy inclusion:

1. Safety. As always safety should be a number one concern regarding toys. The purpose is to add or compliment pleasure, not to inflict any unnecessary harm. This of course wouldn't be the intention with the Christian couple, but it's important to be sure a toy does not pose any noticeable accidental harm or danger to yourself or your Christian partner.

2. Avoid. There are some intimate toys to avoid. One such would be any sex toy resembling or mimicking that of another person, figure, or representing such. There are toys present which will resemble, say for instance, a popular celebrity figure. This is akin to bringing in a third party to your relationship, and naturally that is a major no-no that goes against Christian intimacy.

3. Imagination. Your choices for intimate toys can include a wide variety of lotions, lubes, erotic oils and fragrances, and even various erotic foods, syrups, frosting, or other sweet flavorings. Make or create your own safe and sound toy, such as a tickler pillow or erotic massage pleaser and teaser.

While certain limitations exist when including a toy into a relationship, with creative imagination there is a wide open arena of erotic and intimate toys to create, include, and intimately enjoy!

By: Chess McDoogle

About the Author:

Javon

Sex toys are designed to offer both men and women sexual pleasure. They can be used alone or with a partner. However, there are many myths in the minds of people relating to them. We try to relate some of the myths and facts below.

Myth1
Sex toys are only for people who have a bad sex life, or no sex life.

Fact 1
Their usage has become common for men and women. Many couples use them during sexual intercourse. It's not only people who have a bad sex life need to use toys for improving their sexual function. Couples who enjoy successful relationships also need to improve their sexual function with regular use of sex toys that can help explore erogenous zones.

Myth 2
They are addictive.

Fact 2
They are not harmful. It may happen that women who use them regularly may get used to them and won't feel adequate arousal with a real penis. It may cause embarrassment to the partner. However, with optimum use, you may not only improve your sexual function but quality of sex life as well.

Myth 3
If a woman has a sex toy, she won't need a man.

Fact 3
Although many vibrators may resemble a real penis in shape, these can't replace a real penis. With a real penis, you can feel greater joy and pleasure. However, there's no harm in masturbation, as it can improve how you function sexually. Adult toys are also used by many couples during sex to enhance sexual pleasure.

Myth 4
Guys only use them because they can't get any sex.

Fact 4
Sex toys can help you discover your potential for sexual pleasure. Most couples use them during sexual intercourse as it helps to stimulate various erogenous parts. Therefore, they should not be an excuse because you don't have real sex. Masturbation with adult toys can improve your sexual efficiency and sexual stamina.

Myth 5
Sex toys make sex less natural.

Fact 5
Natural sex desired by everyone. It gives both men and women immense sexual pleasure. However, most women are unable to have an orgasm during sex. Some women may fake an orgasm instead. However, sex toys prove extremely handy for occasions when this might happen. With their help, a woman can help stimulate her deepest erogenous zone known as the G-spot. Therefore, it's a complete myth that they make sex less natural.

Myth 6
There are bad and good toys.

Fact 6
Sex toys can improve your sexual function and provide immense sexual pleasure. They can become bad when you don't operate them properly. Before using any toy for sexual pleasure, you should learn to operate it properly. Nowadays, many sophisticated and advanced toys are available on the market. These take extra care of your sensitive sexual parts such as vagina and clitoris.

Myth 7
The more you pay for, the better it is.

Fact 7
It's not always necessary that only the expensive ones give you immense sexual pleasure. Some cheap ones can also give you an equal pleasure. However, the one thing you need to ensure before buying any pleasure object is its design and what material it is made from. Sex toys are inserted deep into erogenous zones like clitoris and vagina of women and anus of men. Therefore, they should be extra fine and soft. You can also get a good quality ones at cheap rates online.

Myth 8
Sex toys are kinky.

Fact 8
Being kinky behind closed doors is not wrong, in fact, is quite normal for couples. Everyone is entitled to enjoy kinky sex and use adult toys when alone. Many couples use them during sexual intercourse for an enhanced sexual pleasure.

Myth 9
Sex toys can cause damage to your body.

Fact 9
It's a complete myth that sex toys can damage your body. It may happen that you may overuse them due to sexual excitement. Therefore, we advise you to have sex in between as well.

By: Kevin Fedorr

About the Author:

Christine

95% of all couples in the world have admitted to becoming bored with their sex life or to having been left unsatisfied with more than half of all sexual encounters with their significant other. That is why so many couples have implemented the use of sex toys in their sex life, in order to add more passion and to create new experiences behind closed doors.

 

There are numerous reasons why couples use sex toys. The majority of couples use them to keep from becoming bored in the bedroom and to also further enhance foreplay. Most couples agree that foreplay is lacking in their sex life. This is generally due to the fact that most couples tend to overlook foreplay the more that their relationship progresses. In fact, many couples look at sex as a chore or as something "they have to do." Therefore, they skip pass foreplay and move straight to intercourse.

 

However, 98% of women have stated in various findings that they receive more pleasure and stimulation through foreplay. In fact, more than half of all women can not achieve orgasm without some form of foreplay.With that in mind, a couple who is 'lacking' in the bedroom or a couple who simply wants to add some 'spice' to their sex life, should highly consider the use of sex toys.

 

The most popular sex toys on the market are vibrators. Vibrators can be used by both members of a couple to stimulate one another and to properly prepare a woman for sexual intercourse. In fact, many sexual experts agree that if a woman is not properly stimulated prior to actual penetration it can result in increased pain and can also result in no pleasure.

 

By using a vibrator a woman can prepare herself for intercourse and a man can also receive pleasure in the knowledge that he is providing pleasure with his mate. This is why vibrators are so popular amongst couples. They are a great way to prepare members for actual intercourse.

 

Sex experts also agree that masturbation while in a relationship is still a very positive action. In fact, many sex experts actually encourage couples to masturbate on their own in order to further their sex lives. With that in mind couples who do use vibrators while together can also use it separately to achieve the pleasure they desire.

 

Apart from vibrators there are thousands of additional sex toys that are designed for couples and for solo use by both sexes. Many of these sex toys are as common as 'blindfolds' which simply take away the use of a person's sight during intercourse in order to enhance the other senses. Then there are more creative sex toys that were designed to provide pleasure to both sexes that act as vibrators to some degree.

 

If you are in a relationship you will want to consider the introduction of sex toys in your sex life in order to maintain a level of fun and excitement. Additionally, you will want to consider the use of sex toys in order to provide more pleasure for both members of your relationship.



By: Britney Simpson

About the Author:

Jerome

Phoenix Delray asked:


There are so many women sex toys on the market today and each one is designed for a different function and purpose. Women sex toys are something that should be celebrated and not hidden; no one should ever feel embarrassed or ashamed. They are a very integral part of a satisfying sex life and should be looked at as such. They are so wonderful because they allow you to learn more about your own sexuality and different techniques that may satisfy you sexually. Many people learn things that help them communicate with their partners about things that they like and do not like; it can often add a much needed buzz in the bedroom.

The most common type of women sex toys are vibrators and there are so many different types and styles that you can choose from. There are the basic bullet styles, but then you can get more advanced with ones that have clitoral stimulator attachments on them. It does not matter as much which type of vibrator you are interested in as much as it does how you intend to use it and with what state of mind. Women sex toys have many functions and are used by many different types of people. Lesbians love to incorporate women sex toys into the bedroom because it can really heighten the overall experience of lesbian sex.

Just as there is no standard way that heterosexuals have sex, lesbian sex can be varied in a large variety of ways. Lesbian sex involves a wide variety of sexual activities and many of them include women sex toys. Many lesbians have discovered the pleasures that come from having strap on sex. Strap ons are dildos that are designed to be worn in a harness which allows a woman to fuck her partner without having to hold the dildo in their hand to keep it in place. Typically, strap on dildos have a wide, flared base that helps to secure the dildo in the harness and keeps it from popping through during rigorous sexual play. Harnesses are great because they come in a variety of sizes, much like the dildos themselves. This allows you to figure out what your partner likes best and then find a harness that fits it perfectly.

Strap on sex is an activity that works well with any body type. Women sex toys are a great addition to the bedroom for any couple, so whether you are hetero or a lesbian couple get some toys and spice up your life.



Jamari

Jerry Leung asked:


There are people who are reluctant to use sex toys. In fact, if your partner is one of such people, it will be quite difficult to introduce a toy in your sex life. However, there are some kind of toys that you may try since they are proved to be less embarrassing.

Sex board games

Indeed a sex board game is not really a toy. However, it is a kind of game like the game Monopoly. You will play it while you are "playing" in the bed room. The simplest kind of such game is a sex dice. There are different actions on the six face of the dice and you will need to do what the dice describes when you throw it. Of there are also some game which are more sophisticated. This will certainly help to spicy the bedroom.

Vibrators

When you are choosing a vibrator, you should try to choose a small one if your partner does not have any experience on it before. Of course in most cases you will use it to simulate the genital of your partner. However, if it is the first time for you or your partner to use a vibrator. You may try to use it to stimulate other parts of the body. For example, it can be used to stimulate the nipples and both men and women love the feeling of being stimulated.

Costumes

This will be usually used for role playing. In fact, if you or your partner does not really like the idea of costumes. You may try some sexy lingerie. As a matter of fact, there are sexy clothes for men as well. If both of you feel alright with costumes, you may even start your fantasy in role playing.

There are various options when role playing is concerned. You can act as a policeman / policewoman while your partner can act as a robber. The idea of doctor and patient or doctor and nurse is also very popular. Particularly, the role playing about pirates can help to introduce some simple and light BDSM equipments in your sex life.

Massage oil

Again, this is not really a sex toy. But most people will love the feeling of being massaged with massage oil. It can really make your partner relaxed. You can start using a small vibrator to stimulate his / her body when he / she feel relaxed. Your partner will certainly love it!



Elyse