Sex Toys

It seems to be a common assumption that all men are potentially 'put out' by their girlfriends owning a vibrator, and that a dildo replaces a woman's need for a man. This is certainly an incorrect assumption. Plenty of women feel more comfortable buying a vibrator and using it to learn more about what pleases her best but ultimately a dildo or vibrator helps improve her sexual relationship with you. If your girlfriend does have a vibrator, incorporate it into your sexual play by you taking control of her toy.

Most vibrators will have a speed dial so make full use of the different settings when playing with her - start slowly with a low setting. Don't just insert the vibrator straight into her vagina; use the toy to tease her. Place the vibrator on different sensitive spots on her body - enjoy finding out which sensations she likes best by moving the vibrator over different parts of her body. Tease her by moving the head of the vibrator around the clitoris without directly touching it, until she asks you for more. For a variation hold her vibrator in your hand while you stroke her clitoris for a special pleasurable feeling.

As your partner builds towards climax, play cat and mouse, by slowing the vibrator again or withdraw it completely teasing your girlfriend until she moans for more. Women can find it hard to orgasm just through penetration alone, keep the vibrator going as part of sex, by putting her on top and putting the vibrator at the base of your penis will send waves of pleasure for both of you. Alternatively you could tease her clit with a sex toy while you take her from behind.

If you are not confident using a vibrator to tease and pleasure your girlfriend, ask her to show you what she likes to do with her own toy, what better way is there than to watch and learn? Another option to drive her crazy is a wireless vibrator - giving you the control over her orgasm. Nothing can beat the excitement of a man controlling his partner's pleasure via remote control. Using a wireless remotes means the opportunities to enjoy this discreet toy are endless; get your girlfriend to wear it wherever she dares!

A vibrator can also provide amazing stimulation for men; use it gently on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help achieve a great high for men and women, talk to your partner about what they enjoy and have fun searching for play things and vibrators online together.

By: Jessica Heart

About the Author:

Kenya

95% of all couples in the world have admitted to becoming bored with their sex life or to having been left unsatisfied with more than half of all sexual encounters with their significant other. That is why so many couples have implemented the use of sex toys in their sex life, in order to add more passion and to create new experiences behind closed doors.

 

There are numerous reasons why couples use sex toys. The majority of couples use them to keep from becoming bored in the bedroom and to also further enhance foreplay. Most couples agree that foreplay is lacking in their sex life. This is generally due to the fact that most couples tend to overlook foreplay the more that their relationship progresses. In fact, many couples look at sex as a chore or as something "they have to do." Therefore, they skip pass foreplay and move straight to intercourse.

 

However, 98% of women have stated in various findings that they receive more pleasure and stimulation through foreplay. In fact, more than half of all women can not achieve orgasm without some form of foreplay.With that in mind, a couple who is 'lacking' in the bedroom or a couple who simply wants to add some 'spice' to their sex life, should highly consider the use of sex toys.

 

The most popular sex toys on the market are vibrators. Vibrators can be used by both members of a couple to stimulate one another and to properly prepare a woman for sexual intercourse. In fact, many sexual experts agree that if a woman is not properly stimulated prior to actual penetration it can result in increased pain and can also result in no pleasure.

 

By using a vibrator a woman can prepare herself for intercourse and a man can also receive pleasure in the knowledge that he is providing pleasure with his mate. This is why vibrators are so popular amongst couples. They are a great way to prepare members for actual intercourse.

 

Sex experts also agree that masturbation while in a relationship is still a very positive action. In fact, many sex experts actually encourage couples to masturbate on their own in order to further their sex lives. With that in mind couples who do use vibrators while together can also use it separately to achieve the pleasure they desire.

 

Apart from vibrators there are thousands of additional sex toys that are designed for couples and for solo use by both sexes. Many of these sex toys are as common as 'blindfolds' which simply take away the use of a person's sight during intercourse in order to enhance the other senses. Then there are more creative sex toys that were designed to provide pleasure to both sexes that act as vibrators to some degree.

 

If you are in a relationship you will want to consider the introduction of sex toys in your sex life in order to maintain a level of fun and excitement. Additionally, you will want to consider the use of sex toys in order to provide more pleasure for both members of your relationship.



By: Britney Simpson

About the Author:

Jerome

Do you know how to give your woman oral pleasure? Do you think you know what pleases your woman? I will share some secrets that will have your woman screaming with pleasure and climaxing with ecstasy. Imagination and experimentation is two key factors in how you become an expert on oral sex.  For many women oral sex can lead right into a full blown orgasm, without  the need of penetration. Here is will demonstrate

 1-     Kiss around her vagina, making sure not to miss any part. Then with your tongue, part her labia to expose her swollem clitoris. Then begin to kiss and lick towards her clitoris. Try to vary the way your tongue moves and caresses her clitoris. This act may last as long as you want it to. The longer you stimulate and suck her clitoris, the more intense her orgasms will be.

2-     Now try some tongue action. Push your tongue completely into her vagina. At this point she will be all warm and wet. The in and out motion of your tongue will please her immensely and raise her excitability. This is a very pleasing feeling for her. She will probably push your head towards her vagina. This provides a deeper penetration of your tongue into her.

3-     Hand manipulation is also very important.  After sucking her vagina and providing tongue penetration stimulation, it is time for a “hand-job” Open her labia and gently squeeze her clitoris with one hand. At the same time, insert your fingers into her vagina. This double stimulation technique will cause her to scream and reach her climax.

 Always remember to have an open communication line between you and your partner. This will allow for a better sex life.

 Learn how to give the maximum orgasm possible this is something you can't afford to miss at any cost - Tell Me The Secret



By: Lissette Robaina

About the Author:

Chase

Angeleena Yi asked:


The selection of an erotic gift for a woman can be a real challenge, especially when this woman is indeed special in your life. Everyone knows that tastes differ, and what is good for one woman can be a disaster for another. However, there is a certain category of gifts that can bring pleasure to almost every girl or woman, even if she doesn't show her great excitement on the first sight of this gift. I'm talking about Sex Toys. I doubt that any woman at least once in her life didn't want to have and to use a sex toy. There's a certain category of women that rave about sex toys again and again. Maybe your woman is one of them?

Choosing the right vibrator for her will always be about personal preferences. However, you can ask yourself some questions before the final purchase and see if your gift will be used frequently or collect dust in your lady's drawer. So, here are the questions:

1. How would you like to use the sex toy: external stimulation, penetration, or both?

2. What is the material for the gift: glass, silicone, rubber, etc. Bare in mind your girl's preferences as to the safety concerns.

3. How hard e.g. vibrator should be: super hard, mild, soft, or super soft.

4. What is your budget on the sex toy gift? Your choice will highly depend on the price of a sex toy.

Among others, I would recommend you a special sex toy gift - Rotating Rabbit Vibrator. Click here to view the demonstration of this vibe



Charlotte

Phoenix Delray asked:


In the world today, sex toys for women are everywhere. They are in your local retail store, every adult novelty shop you can imagine, and they are even featured prominently in magazines, television shows and movies. There is such a large variety of sex toys for women on the market that come in so many varying shapes, sizes and even colors. While sometimes it may seem intimidating and overwhelming to think about going into a sex shop and looking around, but it does not have to be that bad. If you take the time to educate yourself on different products and what specifically you are looking for, then you will be much more comfortable and be able to enjoy the experience rather than be scared by it.

One of the most common types of sex toys for women is vibrators. Vibrators are great because they are designed for every type of woman and for many different reasons. Most of them are equipped with some type of battery operated motor that vibrates and creates and extra stimulation depending on how and at what speed you move it. Vibrators are very versatile because they come in so many different shapes, sizes and colors so anyone can find one that they like. Many sex toys for women only come in one make and model which is what makes female vibrators so unique. Many vibrators that you will come across are designed with extra attachments on them with different types of clitoral stimulators. Some of the most advanced types of sex toys for women have different speeds you can set the vibration to and some of them even make circular motions too. There are also other types of sex toys for women that are known as dildos; they are very similar to vibrators. The difference is that dildos are only designed for penetration meaning that they only move when you move them yourself. However, there are many similarities because like vibrators, dildos come in many different colors, shapes and sizes to fit the needs of any woman.

There is also an entire classification of sex toys for women that are referred to as anal sex toys. Anal toys are great for anyone who is thinking about engaging in anal sex because it really helps to loosen up the area. Anal toys are a type of sex toy that should definitely be paired up with some kind of sex lube because the anus is an area that does not self lubricate. Whichever sex toy for women you decide on, it is just about personal preference. So, most importantly, explore and have fun with it.



Tyra