Sex Toys

This and many more questions with respect to orgasm have been frequently asked online and giving the numerous orgasm techniques available, I believe it should be easily tackled. Orgasm as I suppose we all know is the peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male while for the female; ejaculation of semen is still very much debatable.

To reach this peak of sexual excitement, many different strategies and methods could be applied; it could be achieved when you are with your partner or when you are by yourself i.e. through masturbation. As regards to the question above, using a vibrator would most definitely be an act of masturbation therefore all acts of foreplay would be performed by you.

However, in the place of the vibrator you should use your fingers to stimulate, touch and fondle both your clitoris and G-spot. The clitoris and the G-spot are often the most erogenous zones in the female body but if it is different in your case then I suggest you try to locate the spots in your body that gives you the most intense pleasure when stimulated. In a case where by your nipples, back of your neck, navel or tip of your ears gives you the most intense pleasure then you may have to get yourself a partner who would do the stimulation for you because you can never effectively stimulate these areas by yourself as an act of masturbation.

By: M. J. Scott

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bella asked:


I was a slow starter myself getting into sex toys, and didn't experiment with a sex toy until I was 25 years old, and I know it can be a little daunting at first, and even more so introducing them into your relationship.

Bringing sex toys into your relationship is a great idea and can be very beneficial for both parties, and many couples that use sex toys during foreplay and sex will tell you that it is a good way of keeping their sex lives new and exciting.

More often than not there is no problem introducing sex toys into your relationship, however it is best not to discuss the subject whilst actually having sex, as this could probably put a bit of a dampener on things, and could throw up questions such as.. "Am I not good enough?" or.. "Am I doing something wrong?". Choose a time and look through a sex toy catalogue or website (ours would be a good start. hehe) with your partner and choose something that you're both comfortable with, maybe start with something small, a cock ring or small vibrator. Choosing something too big and scary, or something that you're not ready for could easily put you off using sex toys again.

When you have chosen what sex toy is right for you and your partner and had it delivered, make sure you have time alone with your partner to play around with it, get rid of any distractions. Take the dog out for the toilet beforehand, unplug your phone and turn off the TV. Take your partner into the bedroom and experiment with your newly bought sex toy.

Experimenting with sex toys for the first time is a lot of fun, but be soft and gentle with each other, using a soft touch with any sex toy that you use will actually heighten the sensation of the sex toy and will help create a more relaxing and enjoyable encounter. If you feel at any time that it is uncomfortable, make your partner aware of this and stop, there's nothing wrong with admitting that the toy that you have chosen isn't the right toy for you. If you decide that the toy that you had chosen isn't for you, don't be disheartened there is a huge range of sex toys out there, of all shapes and sizes and there is something for everyone.

Have fun.

Bella.

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