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One of the many challenges men have is to decide on what positions to use when getting booty. The biggest fears are that the woman will get bored with the "same old, same old" and as a result lose interest in sex. So the question becomes, what are the best sexual positions?

The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that in mind, I'll now talk about the top five mistakes guys make when it comes to sexual positions, so that way you won't continue making them.

Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything seen in a porn movie. This is probably the biggest reason that guys fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see studs banging beautiful broads, and... well, they just don't know any better. The problem is that sexual positions in those sorts of movies are meant to display a good scene for viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the actors.

And in fact, one of the WORST positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With her pelvis bent back that far, she can feel pain in her cervix if you push in too far. Plus it's a position that puts pressure. (If you ever have a chance to go behind the scenes and watch the making of an adult movie, you'll see how quickly the mood gets killed when the actress keeps having to stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)

Position Mistake 2: Trying too hard to keep your weight off the woman, in any position. To a woman, sex is a way to get closer to her man. She loves it when he leans on the underside of her thighs. So here's a tip for you to try... Next time you're having sex with your woman (while you're engaged in actual intercourse, that is), get more of your weight on her. You see, during sex, almost every woman enjoys feeling her man's body pressed hard against her.

So how much weight should you put on her? Make it enough so that after you come, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, your woman will tell you that she feels like she's being smooshed. Of course, do this within limits! If you're on top off her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can feel painful for her.

But the bottom line is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least some of the man's weight. So save the gentlemanly sex for the royal family's women!

Position Mistake 3: Letting the woman do all the work when she's on top. For virtually every woman, sex is mostly a passive activity. So by being the motionless beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of sex for her, which is to open herself up to you penetrating into her body.

Position Mistake 4: Being a wimp. A lot of guys have read too many "Men are From Mars"-type books and think women like it if you ask permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just "do it." Flip her over, move her here and there. Be aggressive and even toss her about like a rag doll when you want to change positions, and... she'll LOVE it! And don't worry about it. If something is going on that the woman doesn't like, she'll let you know.

Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier positions are better. You don't need to be upside down, hanging from a lamp, and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, woman lying on her back) can be the best sexual position.

Tricky positions are just frustrating for everybody and often kill the mood because there's too much "where should I put my arm?"... and not enough "let's just have fun exploring."

By: John J. Alexander

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Using vibrators in the bedroom can make some men feel threatened, but it needn't (She is having sex with you not the vibrator). Instead what guys need to focus on are the things that the vibrator can't do. Some enjoy teasing her, talking dirty to her and getting her turned on. There is no device in the world that can do that as effectively as you.

Sex Toy Techniques

There are a number of sexy tips that can make sex toys hotter in the bedroom:

* Most vibrators have multiple speeds these days, so you can have a good time mixing between these speeds during foreplay. Switch it onto the slowest setting for some sensuous play, then increase the speed as she nears orgasm to give her the time of her life. The key is to keep her guessing and playing the game.

* For couples that want to experiment more, put multiple layers of cloth over the head of the vibrator, as the sex gets hotter and hotter, slowly strip these layers off. I usually leave the final layer on (It can be too intense otherwise) and increase the speed instead to give her a huge orgasm.

* Because the vibrations spread through your body during sex, you can give her a sexy thrill by putting the vibrator to different parts of your body during sex and foreplay. Each place that you put it on will give her a different feeling, so enjoying playing with it. Place it against your jaw during oral sex to send sensual vibrations through your tongue or place it against your hand while you stroke her clitoris for a unique experience.

* Teach her about all the erogenous zones that she never knew she had using the vibrator. There are many erogenous zones that light up whenever you touch the vibrator to them. Help her discover the pleasure of the perineum, clitoris and labia by mixing the stimulation between each of them.

* Talk dirty to her throughout. Tell her about how hot she is and that you want to see her orgasm, all the while driving her crazy with the sex toy.

Sexy Fun with Sex Toys and Vibrators

Once you have the hang of using these device and toys a world of new sexual experiences awaits both of you. Soon you will realize that the vibrator itself is only a device and the key to having great sex with it is the way that you use it.

By: Harlan Mulroy

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With over 29,000 attendants, the 2010 Venus adult toys exhibition has broken the records before. More than 13,000 visitors rushed into the expo pavilion underneath the Berlin radio tower on Sunday. Why is this event so hot? I think you will find the answer if you follow me in this article below.

In the 2010 Venus expo, 273 exhibitors from all over the world bring our visitors millions of new products which include 3D animated adult movies, mobile phone (even the iPhone 4) applications and all kinds of new vibrators and massagers.

Every year the adult sex toys event brings lots of surprises to customers and contributors. In the event, we found many highlights which may attract you as well.

1. Respect homosexuality, sex toys can do that.

Homosexuality is not a social problem. It's just all about love, which maybe a little different from the "normal" ones in your opinion. I confess the sex toys are (one of) the greatest inventions in this world. They perfectly solve sexual problems between homosexual partners and as a result, homosexual buyers are an essential part which makes up the main targets for sex toys.

2. New features about sex toys

This year the new feature is attractive: both you and your partner can enjoy the same vibrator/massagers while having sex with each other.

For example, the product named "cherry on top" of Xmybox.com has drawn lots of attention from all visitors and exhibitors. You can use with your partner and even in the shower it's available because this product is water-proof enough for you.

This is a brief introduction of the Venus adult exhibition and in my following articles; I will bring you more information about the expo. Sex toys make life better.

By: Joan Miss

About the Author:

Adan

bella asked:


I was a slow starter myself getting into sex toys, and didn't experiment with a sex toy until I was 25 years old, and I know it can be a little daunting at first, and even more so introducing them into your relationship.

Bringing sex toys into your relationship is a great idea and can be very beneficial for both parties, and many couples that use sex toys during foreplay and sex will tell you that it is a good way of keeping their sex lives new and exciting.

More often than not there is no problem introducing sex toys into your relationship, however it is best not to discuss the subject whilst actually having sex, as this could probably put a bit of a dampener on things, and could throw up questions such as.. "Am I not good enough?" or.. "Am I doing something wrong?". Choose a time and look through a sex toy catalogue or website (ours would be a good start. hehe) with your partner and choose something that you're both comfortable with, maybe start with something small, a cock ring or small vibrator. Choosing something too big and scary, or something that you're not ready for could easily put you off using sex toys again.

When you have chosen what sex toy is right for you and your partner and had it delivered, make sure you have time alone with your partner to play around with it, get rid of any distractions. Take the dog out for the toilet beforehand, unplug your phone and turn off the TV. Take your partner into the bedroom and experiment with your newly bought sex toy.

Experimenting with sex toys for the first time is a lot of fun, but be soft and gentle with each other, using a soft touch with any sex toy that you use will actually heighten the sensation of the sex toy and will help create a more relaxing and enjoyable encounter. If you feel at any time that it is uncomfortable, make your partner aware of this and stop, there's nothing wrong with admitting that the toy that you have chosen isn't the right toy for you. If you decide that the toy that you had chosen isn't for you, don't be disheartened there is a huge range of sex toys out there, of all shapes and sizes and there is something for everyone.

Have fun.

Bella.

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