Sex Toys

Coming too quickly during sex or premature ejaculation is one of the most common of all sexual concerns. “I want my hubby last longer. How to help him with it?” or “I want to last longer in bed?? Is this possible?” Questions flow wild.

Earlier definition of premature ejaculation included a specific time limit (3 minutes), but today premature ejaculation it is ejaculation that occurs when a man doesn’t last as long as he or his partner would like. The good news is that coming too quickly is not a disease or illness. However, the bad news is that early ejaculation does exist and washes away a man’s self confidence.

Don’t be confused. Don’t be ashamed and do not put up with the situation. Learn how to control your body and give a try to some “slow it down” positions and techniques. Ahh, and please, practice and patience are required. And the truth is that this post is not only for those men who feel they cum too early. It may be very informative for every man out there, since the sexual positions I want to discuss today do work for every man who wants to become a better lover and improve his overall health. Besides, these positions offer enjoyable bonuses for women.

What about becoming better in bed? I know you want it. And we women want it from you too. Moreover, this is possible and easy.

Sexual positions delaying that “point of no return”

Woman on top sex position

To control your ejaculation you need to know this: ejaculation is provoked by the speed and force of your thrusting, so the main idea is to decrease the speed and force of your sexual thrusts. When a woman is on top, there is minimal sexual stimulation of your penis. You don’t thrust, but your woman does and she should do it SLOWLY. Besides, in this position the woman is getting g-spot stimulation. And if you pull her down on your chest she will get an amazing clit stimulation. This sex position is perfect for both lovers and leaves plenty of time to enjoy each other before orgasm. Isn’t this cool to be in total control?

Sitting

The positions involving sitting are great too. A good one for a man is sitting on the edge of the bed with his feet on the floor. In such a way, you will have her wrapping your neck and her legs around your waist. The result is face-to-face intimacy, simultaneous pleasure and long-lasting sex, because in this sex position you also avoid the intense penis stimulation.

Sexual positions bringing that “point of no return”

The sexual positions where all the “work” is done by a man should be avoided. These are all the variations of missionary and “doggy style” positions. However, if you and your woman really adore these, no problem, get some tips on how to perform: thrust DEEPLY and SLOWLY. When you get deeper in her your penis enters a wider area of her pussy and the stimulation of your sensitive penis head is not enough to ejaculate. By the way, did I say that women go nuts when they are done deeply and slowly?

And one more tip is rotation, pressing your pubic zone against her, and slight wiggling every time when you feel the urgency to ejaculate. The level of your excitement will be decreased after some seconds with this technique, and it will be enough to restart thrusting. Her bonus is clit stimulation and loads of satisfaction.

Controlling ejaculation is not all about the position. A combination of sexual positions with oral sex and other methods is a good idea.

In addition to sexual positions, there are more good tips and simple techniques. For example, as you know, using a condom really decreases the penis stimulation. Cock ring sex toys work wonders and help to prolong sex by comfortable tightening the shaft and adding at least ten happy minutes to your performance. Besides, most of cock rings are designed to stimulate a woman. Breathing is another method of arousal control; to calm arousal, take a few deep and slow breaths and keep going between the sheets. One more thing is performing Kegel exercises, because the pelvic muscles form the base for the male reproductive system. If PC muscles are strong, they help to achieve complete control over ejaculation.

However, imagine how pleased your woman will be, enjoying multiple orgasms with you! Imagine how proud you’ll be, being able to satisfy your woman every time you have sex. For a woman it is really important when a man is able to maximize his sexual performance.



By: nellioness

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Myah

The male g-spot is actually called the prostate. You have probably heard a lot about the importance of prostate health, but even though people like to talk about it, few men actually understand it. Women do not have prostates, so sometimes these are called the male gland. A prostate is actually half glad, half muscle.

Prostates are walnut-sized and have three lobes. They surround the urethra, which is why men with prostate problems sometimes have a hard time urinating. The urethra trails from the bladder to the penis, and the prostate is found near the bladder end of this tube, right in front of the rectum.

That means you can stimulate the prostate anally (and it also means that prostate examinations are done anally. Do not freak out about that that, though. Although many men are at first adverse to the idea of massage via a route up there, if you relax, it actually feels really good.

Essentially, the prostates job is make fluid that is used in semen, making up about 10-30% of the liquid ejaculated when a man orgasms. The fluid found in the prostate is slightly alkaline, in order to help combat the acidity of a womans vagina, keeping the sperm alive longer and helping to protect the sperms DNA. So, the prostate is directly responsible for healthy pregnancies!

Have you ever made a woman squirt through g-spot stimulation? Yes, it does happen! Essentially, you were stimulating the female version of the prostate, and the fluid is similar. The same thing can happen if you stimulate your prostate, you squirt. Most men who have experienced a prostate orgasm have noted similar reactions to women who have experienced squirting.

For both sexes, these are the most intense, powerful orgasms you will even have. Does that sound good? There is a correct way and an incorrect way to stimulate the prostate.

When you start having these types of orgasms, you could be blown away with the intensity and the pleasure waves.

Make sure you use a lot of lubrication before you try inserting anything up the anus. One should place lubrication IN the anus as well as on the anus.

One should be totally relaxed in the 2 muscle rings of the anus. The best way to achieve this is by anal massage with your fingers.

Anal sex toys is another way to massaging the anus for prostate massage. Again use lots of lubrication and relax the anus first before any play.

One should use a thin glove for any anal play and to also place a condom on any anal sex toy.

Great sex is your birthright!



By: Maurice Tate

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Kellie

Phoenix Delray asked:


Lesbian sex toys are unique. There are tons of sex toys out there, but the lesbian sex toys are specially designed for a woman on both ends, whether she is the giver or the receiver of the toy. There are many categories of lesbian sex toys, and two of the most popular ones are dildos and vibrators.

Vibrators are the single most popular kinds of lesbian sex toys. These include g spot vibrators, strap on clitoral vibrators, traditional vibrators, and waterproof vibrators. The g spot vibrators are extremely popular because many women are unaware of how their g spot works. These vibrators help women experience the massaging techniques that can bring them to orgasm quickly from g spot stimulation.

The tips of these lesbian sex toys are various shapes, from flatter tips to more teardrop shaped tips. Many of the really great g spot vibrators are waterproof, so that you and your girl can have fun with them in pools, bathtubs, or showers. Many women enjoy a vibrator with multiple speeds for the vibration. This allows the sex toy to be accommodating and personalizable. Some of these lesbian sex toys even have a succession of increasing speeds to suit womens needs as she gets closer to orgasm. G spot vibrators should be phthalate free, and the most popular ones are those that are soft and flexible. Everyone appreciates lesbian sex toys that are quiet, too.

Other popular lesbian sex toys are the dildos. Dildos are classics because they are all about penetration. There is a wide variety of dildo sex toys, and they can be long, short, thick, slender, smooth, textured, and even double headed. A womans sexual pleasure is important when using a dildo, which is why they vary so much. No two women are alike.

Anal dildos are soft, flexible, and usually are very popular. There is such a wide variety of these lesbian sex toys. There are even some that attach to a shower with a hose! Anal dildos are made to keep their integrity with the use of anal lubricant, and any time anal masturbation or anal play happens, lube must be used.

Dildos for the vagina vary in style, ranging from excellent replicas of real penises to smooth, shafty, bullet shaped ones. The replicas of penises are sometimes molded after a famous porn stars shaft. They can be unnaturally colored or natural flesh colored. These lesbian sex toys vary in size from just a few inches long to more than a foot long, and the girths vary just as much, too.



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James Mcguire asked:


Most people know about Rabbit Vibrators and know what I am talking about and needs little introduction but few realise the workings behind this orgasmic sex toy.

A rabbit vibrator is essentially a vibrator. But don't be confused as there is one essential ingredient to this vibrator which will be explained later. A rabbit vibrator has a few extra features. The rabbit vibrator is designed especially for the needs of the woman not only for solo stimulation but to enhance lovemaking between couples. Rabbit vibrators truly shine as one of the best sex toys for women.

Over the years Rabbit Vibrators have been given various names such as The Rabbit, Bunny Rabbit, Pearl Rabbit. Essentially these sex toys are all the same with the exception of variation of color changes. Rabbit vibrators usually have a rotating or gyrating head. Most new rabbits can rotate both clock-wise and counter clockwise with a controller for the speed. The head is most often shaped like a penis to give a realistic feeling but can be found with a curved end for maximum G-Spot stimulation.

Majority of Rabbit Vibrators have small plastic or metal beads incased in the shaft that vibrates or rotates at varying speeds and directions which can intensify at a touch of a button. These beads serve to enhance the sensation of an orgasm much like a ribbed condom. When the muscles of the vaginal wall contract around these vibrating or rotating beads during an orgasm, the beads provide extra sensations. The beads are found only on a rabbit vibrator and are one of the features that make is so popular.

The second and if not most important feature of a rabbit adult sex toys are the rabbit ears hence the name rabbit vibrator. These ears are shaped much like the ears of rabbit which in turn vibrates and stimulates the clitoral stimulation as they come into direct contact with the clitoris.

When purchasing a rabbit vibrator look for variable vibrating speeds and rotations which can easily be controlled either by a fixed handle or a remote control unit. The rabbit is a tried and proven sex toy which was unanimously chosen as the "best vibrator" out of 40 different vibrators on Playboy TV's "Sexcetera" and was selected as the "best vibrator" on a radio station in New York City when compared to other similar sex toys.

To enhance your experience when using any vaginal or anal sex toy vibrator, make sure to use water based lubricants. With all this, said sex toys can be a wonderful enhancement to lovemaking and a source of truly spectacular pleasure and these toys should not be used in place of your partner but with your partner.



Ramon