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It seems to be a common assumption that all men are potentially 'put out' by their girlfriends owning a vibrator, and that a dildo replaces a woman's need for a man. This is certainly an incorrect assumption. Plenty of women feel more comfortable buying a vibrator and using it to learn more about what pleases her best but ultimately a dildo or vibrator helps improve her sexual relationship with you. If your girlfriend does have a vibrator, incorporate it into your sexual play by you taking control of her toy.

Most vibrators will have a speed dial so make full use of the different settings when playing with her - start slowly with a low setting. Don't just insert the vibrator straight into her vagina; use the toy to tease her. Place the vibrator on different sensitive spots on her body - enjoy finding out which sensations she likes best by moving the vibrator over different parts of her body. Tease her by moving the head of the vibrator around the clitoris without directly touching it, until she asks you for more. For a variation hold her vibrator in your hand while you stroke her clitoris for a special pleasurable feeling.

As your partner builds towards climax, play cat and mouse, by slowing the vibrator again or withdraw it completely teasing your girlfriend until she moans for more. Women can find it hard to orgasm just through penetration alone, keep the vibrator going as part of sex, by putting her on top and putting the vibrator at the base of your penis will send waves of pleasure for both of you. Alternatively you could tease her clit with a sex toy while you take her from behind.

If you are not confident using a vibrator to tease and pleasure your girlfriend, ask her to show you what she likes to do with her own toy, what better way is there than to watch and learn? Another option to drive her crazy is a wireless vibrator - giving you the control over her orgasm. Nothing can beat the excitement of a man controlling his partner's pleasure via remote control. Using a wireless remotes means the opportunities to enjoy this discreet toy are endless; get your girlfriend to wear it wherever she dares!

A vibrator can also provide amazing stimulation for men; use it gently on the head, shaft and base of the penis. Anal vibrators can help achieve a great high for men and women, talk to your partner about what they enjoy and have fun searching for play things and vibrators online together.

By: Jessica Heart

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Those who do not use adult sex toys often ask this questions when come across various sex products in the web or in magazines. They really cannot understand what for people go to sex stores and buy variously shaped adult sex toys there.

Ways to use adult sex toys:

Stimulation: For this purpose, you can use insert able sex toys, such as dildos and vibrators. The variety of dildos and vibrators presented to your attention at sex stores is incredibly great. There are many types of dildos and vibrators each designed for a particular purpose: strap-on sex toys, G-spot vibrators, suction cup dildos.

Besides this, all these adult sex toys are made of various materials. Thus, you should choose a dildo or a vibrator carefully in order to find a device that will suit you best.

For getting more information, about dildos and vibrators see our Sex Toys Guide.

Double stimulation: There are adult sex toys that can provide a woman with double stimulation. For instance a rabbit vibrator. This is a unique sex toy. Besides this, a hollow sphere filled with beads very pleasurably stimulates.

As well, you can experience double stimulation with a dual-action dildo or a flexible double-ended dildo. Just about all adults can enjoy sex toys.

You have to consider the following factors to decide on the best sex toys for yourself or your partner.

1. Gender - Certain sex toys are specifically designed for a gender type. For example, cock rings are made for men, unless you are buying it for your boyfriend, female shoppers can skip that category altogether.

2. Sexual Orientation - Most of our sex toys can be used by all sexual orientations.

3. Preference on Sex Toy Material - Certain materials can cause allergic reactions to a small percentage of users. You will have to make sure you are not allergic to the material before choosing the toy. In addition, certain types of material are far more superior to others, such as cyber skin, silicone, and better than real are flesh like materials, where as jelly or rubber are not as high in quality.

How to choose the best sex toys for you?

If you are a female, you can start with the following categories:

• Bullets and Eggs - Bullets and eggs are the cheapest and most effective stimulators around.

• Rabbit Vibrators - These little toys are great for the doubled pleasure.

• Orgasmic Balls - These balls either vibrate on their own or use kinetic energy to move. Every move you make causes the balls to vibrate.

If you are a male, you can start with the following categories:

• Cock Rings - Cock rings are one of the best male sex toys. Some men even reported one to 2 inches of extra growth when using cock rings compared to not using them.

• Sex Dolls - Some dolls are celebrity molds, some are extremely realistic made with flesh like materials, and some of them even vibrate during use.



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