Sex Toys

Most heterosexual women do not masturbate. They also do not find the concepts of eroticism or fantasy that appealing. So who reads all the feminine erotica out there?

Presumably some lesbian women masturbate and read erotica. In fact, female masturbation and clitoral stimulation are often associated with lesbianism. Perhaps this is why so much female erotica focuses on women's bodies and sex between women.

No offence to lesbian or bisexual women but I am straight. I like male body parts, male psyche and sexual acts involving men. The woman is incidental. I enjoy homosexual erotica because I imagine myself on the receiving end of fellatio or anal sex, for example.

Female erotica often includes humiliation, domination and sadism. The titles of women's sex stories abound with words such as: slave, chains, torture, bound, obey, submission. Do women associate sex with feeling 'dirty' or guilty about their sexual urges?

I like the wholehearted enthusiasm for sex that is portrayed in homosexual erotica. There is no virginal reluctance or demure disgust. People just enjoy the eroticism of sexual activity without anyone being forced into anything against their will (not always but mostly).

I admit that domination can be arousing. Given there is so much out there I have read my share. One book of sex stories involved a series of sadistic scenarios and frankly I was quite relieved when I eventually tired of the never-ending pain. My conclusion is that the concept of sadism may get me going but, for me at least, it does not cause orgasm.

It was a revelation to me that, unlike pornography, erotica is not intended solely for the purposes of causing sexual arousal. Perhaps this explains why I often struggle to find sex stories for women that can assist with orgasm. I have to wonder though... what else does anyone read this stuff for?

Shere Hite was phenomenal but sadly few women relate to her findings. This is because most women approach sex through their relationship with their lover. They have no concept of enjoying their own sexual arousal through clitoral stimulation. Equally they have never discovered the pleasures of sexual fantasies.

I read Hite when I was twenty and I understood that clitoral stimulation was critical to female orgasm from masturbation. However, clitoral stimulation never seemed to help with my sexual arousal during sex with my partner. The fact is that even during female masturbation, clitoral stimulation only leads to orgasm when it is combined with the use of sexual fantasies.

Men have a fairly natural transition from masturbation to sex because they use images of naked women for arousal. Women do not use images of naked men during masturbation so it is more difficult for them to transfer their orgasm techniques including their use of sexual fantasies to sex with a partner.

By: Jane E Thomas

About the Author:

Ryland

Maybe you have come to the point in your life where you are ready to do more self exploration. There are tons of ways to achieve a new insight on life, and maybe for you one new and exciting way is with sex toys. Sadly even though we are so advanced in many ways, there are still many women in the world that are lacking self sexuality education. The great thing about taking this new path in life, is that everything is already inside of you. The only person you need is yourself, and maybe the help of some extra stimulation.

Don't be scared when I say the word toys! It's likely you've never owned a toy before, and the idea of buying one turns you off. Yes, the thought of adult book stores or toy stores reminds us of dingy old buildings with creepy old guys walking around. Thankfully we now have access to many online sex stores in the privacy of our own homes. One great online sex store you can buy a new sex toy or your first sex toy is LeLuv.com There you can find a huge selection of the hottest and kinkiest sex toys on the net for great prices, everything from the rabbit sex toy, to bullets, and even toys for men.

You will have to decide with which type of dildo to purchase to rock your world. It might be overwhelming at first, but all you have to do is experiment and see what works for you. Some women prefer small hard plastic dildos, prefer vibrating bullets, and others try to achieve the g-spot orgasm with rabbit sex toys. The options are really endless.

Let's now talk about a few different types of vibrators that might be a good choice for you girls trying to get the fullest of your exploration! First you will need to decide if you are looking for more of a clitoral stimulation, g-spot stimulation, or a little of both. As they say double the pleasure, double the fun. From personal experience the small bullet type of vibrators work great for clitoral orgasms, you'd be amazed at how powerful and strong they vibrate despite the size. There are also many dildos that are curved and angled to reach your inner walls, and help stimulate your g-spot, sending you straight through the roof. Of course if you aren't sure which spot is for you, you could try my favorite. Double stimulation is a really incredible feeling and the rabbit sex toy will help you achieve this.

Just remember ladies, find that toy that makes you feel comfortable. You can always move up to bigger and better things. So if that means starting with a small finger vibrator until you think you're able to handle something like a rabbit sex toy, then so be it! For all of you adventurers out there, get your rabbit on!

By: Ethan Mark Hunt

About the Author:

Drew

A sextoy is any object or device that is primarily used in facilitating human sexual pleasure. The most popular SexToys are designed to resemble human genitals and can be classified as vibrating or non-vibrating. Sex toys usually do not include contraceptives, pornography, or condoms.

A related "softer" term is adult toy. Another related term is marital aid, often used as a euphemism for sex toys, although marital aid is broader as it can also be applied to drugs and herbs marketed as supposedly enhancing.

Types of sex toys:

A penis sleeve” Pocket pussies" or "vaginas" or "masturbators modeled to accept a penis for simulated intercourse.

Cock rings in their most basic form enhance and prolong a man's erection. A man may wear a cock ring because he has erectile difficulties, or because he likes the particular sensation of tightness and engorgement that wearing one provides. Some models include a protruding clitoral stimulator. Some cock rings have vibrators attached.

A triple crown is a cock ring that has additional rings for restraining the testicles. A triple crown changes and intensifies the sensations.

A cock harness is a more elaborate harness designed to be worn around the penis and scrotum. Its

intention is similar to that of a cock ring.

A penis sleeve is a cylindrical device that is placed on the shaft of the penis, with the aim of increasing stimulation. They often have soft bumps intended to provide further stimulation.

A penis extension is a partially hollow device like a very short dildo, with the hollow end placed on the end of the penis, intended to increase the effective length of the penis. These are generally worn with condoms to stop them falling off in use.

A docking sleeve is a cylindrical device similar to a penis sleeve, but is open at both ends, so that two men can dock.

Vaginal / Clitoral stimulation

A dildo is a non-vibrating device that is used for sexual stimulation of the vagina and/or anus.

A double-ended dildo is a long, usually flexible dildo with both ends designed for penetration.

Vibrators are vibrating devices intended to stimulate the nerves of the body. Vibrators intended for sexual use are often dildo-shaped, although they also come in a wide range of shapes and sizes, allowing internal as well as external use. Most women report using vibrators for stimulation and as such models designed for this purpose.

Ben WA balls are hollow metal balls, are inserted vaginally, and can be worn inside the vagina for extended periods.

Kegel exercisers, also known as vaginal barbells, are designed to improve muscle tone in the pelvic floor, and can be used for sexual pleasure.

Glass sex toys are becoming common. These are made from Pyrex glass that provides a very strong solid object. Glass dildos are commonly used with lubrication because this combination offers very low resistance.



By: Richard Scott

About the Author:

Essence

By the end of the article you’ll know about the various types of vibrators, the areas they are designed to stimulate allowing you to make an informed decision about which vibrator is perfect for you!

Classic vibrators

Classic vibrators have a shaft which vibrates, they don’t have additional features that stimulate the clitoris. Depending on which vibrator you choose depends on the size of the shaft and how many vibrating functions it has. G spot vibrators also fit into the classic vibrator range. These toys are bent at the tip to reach the G-Spot. You’ll know if it is a G Spot vibrator as it will generally be in the name of the product. Classic vibrators are ideal for women who like straight up vaginal and G Spot pleasure.

Rabbit Vibrators

Rabbit vibrators are by far the most popular vibrator for women. Just like a classic vibrator, rabbit vibrators have a vibrating shaft and they also have an additional feature to stimulate the clitoris. This is how the rabbit vibrator receives its name – this additional part which pleasure the clitoris appears like rabbit ears. Rabbit vibrators are powered by batteries and they offer different speeds and intensities of vibrations. The shaft contains beads which rotate, the tip of the vibrator also twirls, and the clitoris stimulator generally has seven different types of vibrations, although depending on which rabbit vibrator you choose depends on how many variations and speeds of vibrations you get. Rabbit vibrators are ideal for women who like double the pleasure, vaginal and clitoral stimulation.

Hands-free vibrators

Hands-free vibrators are known as butterflies. Butterflies are generally harnessed on around the waist and the butterflies purpose is to give kisses on the clitoris. Sometimes butterflies may also have a petite shaft, although many do not. The butterfly is works by a remote control, so you are able to sit back, or lie back, and enjoy heavenly clitoral stimulation without lifting a finger. Hands-free vibrators are ideal for women who want pure clitoral stimulation.

Bullet and Eggs

Bullets and eggs are petite vibrating sex toys which are the shape of an egg or bullet. Their purpose is to pulsate on the clitoris, also they are able to be used to stimulate in the vagina. Bullets and eggs have a chord that attaches them to a remote control, and you’re able to control the vibrations from the remote. Bullets and eggs are ideal for those wanting stimulation to the clitoris or a petite vibrating toy to use in the vagina which is not the size of a classic shaft.

Anal vibrators

There are heaps of different products for anal play, and many of these vibrate. You’ll know which products vibrate from skimming the product write ups and if they need batteries. Anal toys are ideal if you like anal pleasure, or you’re looking to explore something new.

Which one is for you?

You have now read about the different types of vibrators, its time to get thinking about which one is for you. Start to think about which part of your body you want to stimulate, the clitoris, vagina, G-spot or anus, or a combination. Now go to the various section and have a look of the various product descriptions and see what sounds appealing for you. There are various shaped vibrators, toys with various speeds, so its just a matter of browsing through and seeing what tempts you.

Tips when using your vibrator

When starting out with your new toy, its a very good idea to use lube. Start slowly with your vibrator toy. If you're new to adult products, its often a good idea to test the various vibrations out on your leg to get used to the sensations. Once you’ve tested one vibrator don’t end it there, there’s so many to and many joys to be had!



By: Suzie Harris

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Maeve