Sex Toys

Using vibrators in the bedroom can make some men feel threatened, but it needn't (She is having sex with you not the vibrator). Instead what guys need to focus on are the things that the vibrator can't do. Some enjoy teasing her, talking dirty to her and getting her turned on. There is no device in the world that can do that as effectively as you.

Sex Toy Techniques

There are a number of sexy tips that can make sex toys hotter in the bedroom:

* Most vibrators have multiple speeds these days, so you can have a good time mixing between these speeds during foreplay. Switch it onto the slowest setting for some sensuous play, then increase the speed as she nears orgasm to give her the time of her life. The key is to keep her guessing and playing the game.

* For couples that want to experiment more, put multiple layers of cloth over the head of the vibrator, as the sex gets hotter and hotter, slowly strip these layers off. I usually leave the final layer on (It can be too intense otherwise) and increase the speed instead to give her a huge orgasm.

* Because the vibrations spread through your body during sex, you can give her a sexy thrill by putting the vibrator to different parts of your body during sex and foreplay. Each place that you put it on will give her a different feeling, so enjoying playing with it. Place it against your jaw during oral sex to send sensual vibrations through your tongue or place it against your hand while you stroke her clitoris for a unique experience.

* Teach her about all the erogenous zones that she never knew she had using the vibrator. There are many erogenous zones that light up whenever you touch the vibrator to them. Help her discover the pleasure of the perineum, clitoris and labia by mixing the stimulation between each of them.

* Talk dirty to her throughout. Tell her about how hot she is and that you want to see her orgasm, all the while driving her crazy with the sex toy.

Sexy Fun with Sex Toys and Vibrators

Once you have the hang of using these device and toys a world of new sexual experiences awaits both of you. Soon you will realize that the vibrator itself is only a device and the key to having great sex with it is the way that you use it.

By: Harlan Mulroy

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Robyn

Don't let the Sybian vibrator intimidate you. It may look complicated and may cost more than your run-of-the-mill vibe, but let us tell you that the Sybian may just be the sex toy you've been dreaming of!

Designed by Dave Lampert, the Sybian Vibrator was first conceived in the 1970s but it wasn't developed until 1983. Its name comes from Sybaris, an ancient Greek city in southern Italy, famous as a center of luxurious living, and Sybarite, which means a person who likes luxurious things.

The vibrator is attached to a large base that the woman straddles, and comes with up to four phallus-shaped washable attachments of varying sizes that are made from synthetic rubber. Just place the device on the floor and control the speed with a remote control that controls both power and vibration/rotation. It has two movements, and a vaginal insert rotates within the vagina and its speed goes from to very slow to very fast. The entire area that makes contact with the vulva vibrates, and so does the vaginal insert. This speed can also be controlled. The separate controls let you independently regulate the vibration and rotation, giving you simultaneous, intense stimulation of both the clitoris and the G-spot internal area.

Recommended by many sex therapists and counsellors, many women report having their first-ever orgasm thanks to a Sybian vibrator. Offering amazing G spot stimulation for about 75 percent of women, it offers a full-body, deep, powerful orgasm. It also sensitizes the G-spot, and when used for sexual therapy, it can help a woman achieve a deep orgasm that may be inhibited due to medications or emotional blocks.

Usually purchased either as a learning tool to develop sexual responses or as a means of deeper fulfillment, this vibe can teach women a lot about their sexual responses and potential. In fact, many women who use the Sybian report to regularly experience multiple orgasms. Other women say that they are now able to have orgasms during sexual intercourse thanks to this pleasurable machine.

There are many advantages to using a Sybian vibrator. It's an excellent aid for bringing your sexy back for women over 60 years of age and it is erotic for lovers to watch their partner ride the Sybian. You can also use it as foreplay and for women who are multi-orgasmic, it can go long after your partner calls it a night. Since men are generally not as orgasmic and tend to lose their erection after ejaculation, the Sybian can be used to satisfy her needs before having intercourse or afterwards until she is fully satisfied.

Certainly giving new meaning to the term "ride 'em cowgirl," the Sybian vibrator is ideal for women who are a bit more adventurous when it comes to sex toys, as well as for those who need have issues achieving an orgasm.

By: Miranda Patterson

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Vivian

When it comes to selecting the kind of sex toy that is going to provide the most sexual satisfaction for a woman, any type of Rabbit Vibrator is going to be high on that list.

One of the main benefits of using a Rabbit Vibrator comes in the fact that it stimulates both the clitoris and vagina at the same time.

In this article, you will discover how to use a rabbit vibrator for the most complete sexual satisfaction.

The first thing you are going to want to do when you get your Rabbit Vibrator is identify which part is going to be inserted into the vagina and which side is going to be used for clitoral stimulation. This is rather easy process as the portion that goes into the vagina looks like a penis and the "rabbit ears" is the portion that will be used for clitoral stimulation.

Also, you are going to want to make sure that you have the batteries installed correctly as your Rabbit wont hop like you want it to if the batteries aren't inserted correctly.

After you insert the batteries, begin experimenting with the controls before you actually begin using it for pleasure.

Most Rabbit Vibrators come with a variety of different levels and controls for both the "vaginal" portion and "clitoral stimulation" portion. What this means is that you are going to want to know which is which before exploring with it on your or your partner's body.

Once you are finally ready to begin using the Rabbit Vibrator you will want to apply a quality water based personal lubricant onto the shaft of the vibrator. Also, many women find applying a high quality female arousal gel underneath the hood of the clitoris increases the amount of pleasure that the "Rabbit Ears" will bring during clitoral stimulation as well.

Once you finish applying all of the necessary lubricants that you desire, simply insert the shaft of the Rabbit Vibrator slowly into the vagina with the bunny facing up. At this point the bunny ears should be in line with your clitoris and if your Rabbit Vibrator has any rotating pearls or beads in the shaft these should be pretty near the vaginal opening.

From here, turn on your Rabbit making sure to start the vibration and rotation on there lowest speeds and then increase the level of intensity gradually until you find that perfect pace.

After you are finished using the Rabbit Vibrator you are going to want to clean it and remove the batteries before putting it away to make sure that it last as long as it can in the future.

By: Trey Osborne

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Estevan

Giving a blow job to your man is one of the easiest ways to satisfy his sexual urges once you have mastered the proper techniques. Having a nice warm mouth around his penis is something most men fantasize about. Why not make his fantasies come true and learn how to give him a blow job that will blow his mind tonight?

Once you have learned how to give good head you can begin to take the art of fellatio to another level. If you don't know the basics of giving good oral sex then you need to learn that first. Trust me, there's a lot more to giving a blow job than just sticking his shaft in your mouth and sucking on it.

How To Use A Vibrator With Oral Sex To Give Him A Mind Blowing Orgasm

There are many types of vibrators you can use for this. It doesn't have to be a sexual vibrator you purchase at adult stores. You can use a personal massager or just about anything that vibrates. My personal favorite is to use "the bullet" while performing this on my man. It's a small compact vibrator but is very powerful.

While giving your man a blow job, take the vibrator and place it on his prostrate gland. This will be the area between his scrotum and his anus. Try and keep the vibrator from touching his balls as this might create a little pain.

Do not apply much pressure, just simply let the vibrator touch his prostrate gland and keep it there until he explodes his juices. The combination of a nice warm mouth and vibrations will give him an experience unlike anything he's ever felt before!

By: Pamela Clark

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Amari

This and many more questions with respect to orgasm have been frequently asked online and giving the numerous orgasm techniques available, I believe it should be easily tackled. Orgasm as I suppose we all know is the peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male while for the female; ejaculation of semen is still very much debatable.

To reach this peak of sexual excitement, many different strategies and methods could be applied; it could be achieved when you are with your partner or when you are by yourself i.e. through masturbation. As regards to the question above, using a vibrator would most definitely be an act of masturbation therefore all acts of foreplay would be performed by you.

However, in the place of the vibrator you should use your fingers to stimulate, touch and fondle both your clitoris and G-spot. The clitoris and the G-spot are often the most erogenous zones in the female body but if it is different in your case then I suggest you try to locate the spots in your body that gives you the most intense pleasure when stimulated. In a case where by your nipples, back of your neck, navel or tip of your ears gives you the most intense pleasure then you may have to get yourself a partner who would do the stimulation for you because you can never effectively stimulate these areas by yourself as an act of masturbation.

By: M. J. Scott

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Asher