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The symptoms of female sexual dysfunction can include lack of desire for sexual intercourse, an inability to enjoy sex, inadequate response to sexual stimulation, insufficient vaginal lubrication, or repeated failure to reach orgasm.

Inadequate response to sexual stimulation and difficulty or inability to reach orgasm is a common but complex problem in women. It is a problem that can have many different causes. Surveys indicate that 40 to 45% of all women suffer from some form of sexual dysfunction. This might be caused by illness or by lack of physical response from the sex organs, but may also be linked to psychological factors.

The female equivalent of male impotence or erectile dysfunction is known as Female Sexual Arousal Disorder (FSAD).

When men and women are sexually stimulated and become aroused, there is an enhanced flow of blood into their sexual organs and their genitals become engorged with blood. In females, this normally should result in:

Enlargement of the clitoris and surrounding tissues (comparable to a male penis erection) Secretion of vaginal lubrication Relaxation and widening of the vaginal opening to facilitate insertion of a penis for intercourse.

FSAD patients have the desire to have sex but their genital area fails to respond in the normal way, making sex painful or impossible.

Underlying Medical Condition

FSAD can result from various underlying medical conditions including:

high blood pressure diabetes irritations, infections and growths in the vaginal area reactions to contraceptive devices.

Medications used to treat high blood pressure, peptic ulcers, depression or anxiety and cancer may also cause problems. Another factor is the physical, hormonal and emotional changes that occur during or after pregnancy or while breast feeding.

FSAD is also frequently linked to psychological factors, which may include:

Relationship issues with the male partner Depression Poor self-esteem Sexual abuse or incest Feelings of shame or guilt about sex Fear of pregnancy Stress and fatigue

Orgasm Difficulties

There are women who are unable to achieve orgasm despite being sufficiently aroused to have sex. This condition is known Female Orgasmic Disorder (FOD)

Women differ from men in that orgasm is a learned, not automatic, response. About five to ten percent of women never have an orgasm through any type of sexual activity - a condition called Anorgasmia. Anorgasmia is most often the result of sexual inexperience, performance anxiety, or past experiences, such as sexual trauma or a strict and prudish upbringing creating inhibitions about sex and sexual pleasure.

There are women who do enjoy sexual activity in spite of reaching orgasm only occasionally or even never. However, for such women, sexual relationships would be far more pleasurable and fulfilling if they could reach orgasm on most occasions of sexual activity.

Treatments

On-going research suggests that any type of medication that increases blood flow to the sexual organs will help to treat sexual disorders in women by increasing physical stimulation in the area. Herbal formulations of gels or creams like Vigorelle or supplements that enhance blood circulation, such as Provestra, have shown promising results.

Trials have been conducted with Viagra on the basis that this drug increases blood flow to the genital areas. However, the scientific community is still waiting for firm evidence to be published that this drug can work on women. A small study published earlier found no positive impact of Viagra on postmenopausal women.

For the moment, doctors concentrate, where possible, on eliminating medications that might have a negative effect on sexual performance. They also review contraceptive methods to ascertain whether this is a factor. Women who suffer from vaginal dryness may be advised to use lubricants or sexual stimulant creams during intercourse. Some doctors recommend that women use Kegel exercises, which help to develop the muscles around the outer portion of the vagina that are involved in pleasurable sensations.

In many cases, masturbation with vibrators has shown remarkable success in overcoming both arousal dysfunction and orgasmic disorder in women. This is because very often the clitoris and vagina have simply not learnt how to respond to stimulation. In such situations vibrator masturbation can successfully train the sex organs to respond to sexual stimulation.

The renowned sex therapist and educator, Helen Singer Kaplan, M.D., Ph.D., suggested the use of vibrators in the treatment of non-orgasmic females. She advised that for those women who have never had an orgasm (primary absolute orgasmic dysfunction), should manual masturbation not be sufficient to reach orgasm, then a vibrator is indicated.

Psychological counseling can also play an important part in treating women with sexual problems, as can coaching in sexual foreplay and stimulation techniques.

By: Michelle Rodrigues

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Are you familiar with the many different ways that woman who own any kind of Rabbit Vibrator are able to have some of the most amazing and mind blowing sexual experiences you cant even begin to imagine?

In this article, you will discover how the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator is able to give women amazing mind blowing orgasms again and again and some simple tips that you can use to make your experience with it even better.

As you may already know the thing that women enjoy the most about any of the Rabbit Vibrators is the fact that it is one of the few vibrators on the market today that stimulate both the vaginal and clitoral areas at the same time.

There are a variety of different Rabbit Vibrators on the market today with the Original Jack Rabbit being the standard that all of the other ones are based on.

The Rabbit Pearl Vibrator is a definite upgrade from the Original Jack Rabbit with the main difference being that it offers you 25 different vibration and rotation speed levels whereas the original only offers 15 of each.

However, it only offers a depth level of 6.75 inches which means it is a little bit shorter than the Original but definitely can give a woman much sexual pleasure no matter what size preference you may have.

Women who use the Rabbit Pearl Vibrator have found that when they add a quality female arousal cream or gel like G Female Stimulating Gel underneath the hood of their clitoris it increases both the pleasure and intensity of any orgasm that she has.

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By: Trey Osborne

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Paxton

One of the many challenges men have is to decide on what positions to use when getting booty. The biggest fears are that the woman will get bored with the "same old, same old" and as a result lose interest in sex. So the question becomes, what are the best sexual positions?

The best way to explain this is to talk about what NOT to do. With that in mind, I'll now talk about the top five mistakes guys make when it comes to sexual positions, so that way you won't continue making them.

Position Mistake 1: Imitating anything seen in a porn movie. This is probably the biggest reason that guys fail with sexual positions. Inexperienced guys think porn is a good model because they see studs banging beautiful broads, and... well, they just don't know any better. The problem is that sexual positions in those sorts of movies are meant to display a good scene for viewers, not to maximize pleasure for the actors.

And in fact, one of the WORST positions for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is when the woman puts her ankles on your shoulders. With her pelvis bent back that far, she can feel pain in her cervix if you push in too far. Plus it's a position that puts pressure. (If you ever have a chance to go behind the scenes and watch the making of an adult movie, you'll see how quickly the mood gets killed when the actress keeps having to stop the scene to go to the bathroom!)

Position Mistake 2: Trying too hard to keep your weight off the woman, in any position. To a woman, sex is a way to get closer to her man. She loves it when he leans on the underside of her thighs. So here's a tip for you to try... Next time you're having sex with your woman (while you're engaged in actual intercourse, that is), get more of your weight on her. You see, during sex, almost every woman enjoys feeling her man's body pressed hard against her.

So how much weight should you put on her? Make it enough so that after you come, and the sexual frenzy dissipates, your woman will tell you that she feels like she's being smooshed. Of course, do this within limits! If you're on top off her grinding her pubic bone for too long, it can feel painful for her.

But the bottom line is that many, many women like to be pressured by at least some of the man's weight. So save the gentlemanly sex for the royal family's women!

Position Mistake 3: Letting the woman do all the work when she's on top. For virtually every woman, sex is mostly a passive activity. So by being the motionless beta male, you destroy the whole purpose of sex for her, which is to open herself up to you penetrating into her body.

Position Mistake 4: Being a wimp. A lot of guys have read too many "Men are From Mars"-type books and think women like it if you ask permission for everything and let them take the lead. Be the alpha male instead and just "do it." Flip her over, move her here and there. Be aggressive and even toss her about like a rag doll when you want to change positions, and... she'll LOVE it! And don't worry about it. If something is going on that the woman doesn't like, she'll let you know.

Position Mistake 5: Thinking the trickier positions are better. You don't need to be upside down, hanging from a lamp, and doing something crazy. Just be normal. An old standby like the missionary (man on top, woman lying on her back) can be the best sexual position.

Tricky positions are just frustrating for everybody and often kill the mood because there's too much "where should I put my arm?"... and not enough "let's just have fun exploring."

By: John J. Alexander

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Darrell

I want to share with you how you can break down the barriers and discover the best vibrators to satisfy your sexual fulfilment, whether you intend to use it alone or in a relationship. The thought of going out to buy vibrators is still a very daunting experience for many people, even in this day of sexual freedom. If you think about the purchase of your sex toy as an aid to a healthy fulfilling sex life you are on your way to discovering a whole new sexual adventure.

The first thing you need to understand in your discovery for the best vibrator for you or you and your partner is to break down any barriers of taboo. Don't think about it as some kind of kinky device that you have to be secretive or embarrassed about in case you are thought of as some kind of pervert. A sex toy is a marvellous aid to spicing up your sex life, providing that both partners feel comfortable about trying new experiences in the bedroom. For people who are not in a relationship a vibrator is an excellent aid for sexual satisfaction. This is not to say it can replace a sexual relationship with another person, but for many who choose not to be in a relationship for whatever reason vibrators provides immense sexual satisfaction. Sex and stress are linked in several ways. Most of us instinctively know this already, and feel it unmistakably when a particularly stressful week or two zaps us of our sex drive. But while stress can have a hand in low libido, it can also be a great stress reliever. Sexual activity releases endorphins and other feel-good hormones.

So for those of you who are who are intrigued by sex toys but far too embarrassed to do anything about it I would suggest you change your mind set to believing that owning and using a sex toy is not bad, it is not kinky, there is no reason too feel embarrassed about buying one. Just keep reminding yourself of this and you will soon feel more confident about owning a sex toy. You will then want to know what types of vibrators are out there and which are the best vibrators for your pleasure.

By: Suzanne Price

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Leland

Ok, accepted. Your fingers and tongue can do all the magic no one else can. But, have you really tried pleasuring your partner with something else? Go through the tips below and you'll thank us for giving you one of the hottest ideas of the season!

o Ever tried a flavored lubricant? These are not just for those who have a hard time taking off. They provide pleasure to both the giver and the recipient. The variety on offer is just mind boggling. You get chocolate flavored ones and even the strawberry water based ones. Water based ones are the best for her because they do not carry risks of an infection afterwards. You can get the ones that heat on contact, especially for her. It will make her sensitive areas more receptive and that translates into less work for you!

o You can add to the fun of you pleasuring her with a vibrator also. You can use it on her, or just watch fascinated as she does it to herself. If you are using it, revv up the speed once in a while. It will drive her bonkers!

o Use a pump. It is not only meant to increase the size of your penis, it pushes the blood up your shaft. This makes your penis more sensitive to every touch and caress. Let her use it on you. It will be a great turn on for her also. Are you complaining?

o You can even try a butt plug. This is an extremely sensitive area, that has a horde of nerve endings in it. Stimulating this area will drive you nuts! Get her into the act for some out of this world fun!

Mutual masturbation is a great way to get all the sexual pleasures you need and want, try it out and get a new dimension to your sex life.

By: Pekkie Aon

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Lacey